Every so often I see articles doing the rounds online about dos and don’ts for dealing with us wheelchair users. I don’t agree with a lot of things those include. I was thinking about writing my own version but basically it comes down to
Be aware of the persons preferrence – a lot of these articles say you should get down on wheelchair height if at all possible when talking to a wheelie. I prefer that people remain standing – or sitting whatever they were doing. I’m not a fan of the crouched down beside me making a special effort thing. I’m not just saying that because of the seat riser in my powerchair I’ve always thought that.
And don’t touch my damn chair.
Don’t lean on it.
Don’t move it when I’m not in it unless I ask you too
Don’t sit in it when I’m not in it.
Don’t grab my handles and take over pushing
Don’t grab my handles and stop me because you want to talk to me (which is what someone did tonight and is why I’m finally writing this post)
Realise that there are always exceptions to these rules but I’m not always going to tell you in advance what they are. I don’t always know what they are! One such example is in this entry and still makes me giggle to remember four years later.
I’m wondering if this is a topic I need to come back to at a later date and in more detail – what do people think?