Went to get my blood pressure checked (normal and I suspect I’ve now had “white coat hypertension” added to my records given how very very high it was when I saw a new to me GP last week) and have some blood taken. The results of the bloods came back a few days later as “normal” which isn’t the most reassuring thing ever as I’d rather be told what they actually are along with the fact they’re normal. But that’s something to take up with the GP at a later date rather than the receptionist giving me the results.
Anyway I was talking to the healthcare assistant about the fact that years ago I was told by one of the nurses there not to let anyone try and take blood from my arms because my veins were buried and they wouldn’t be able to do it but the last twice they’ve drawn it first time from my arm. I find it weird that for so long no one could get it out my arms and most wouldn’t even try (and then the nurse told me that and I stopped letting them try unless they’d tried and failed in my hands) but now suddenly they can again.
She wondered if I’ve upped my fluids or lost any weight? So I was explaining that I have been trying to eat healthier and more sensibly (and to be honest not doing great at that lately but I didn’t tell her that) but that it was proving so hard for me to be weighed and causing so many issues I’ve decided not to focus on that any more. I used the example of the NHS specialist weightloss service I went to a while ago and how they couldn’t cope with someone of my level of disability and just accused me of letting my disability stop me.
Immediately the healthcare assistant went “no! you don’t let your disability stop you Emma, you’re not sitting on your bum all day…”
And I went “well I am sitting on my bum all day…” and laughed
She went on to say that she meant I don’t just hang around at home doing nothing but I’m out and about all the time at CAB and other things.
I knew that’s what she meant but the way she phrased it originally just tickled me. One of those accidental things that able bodied people say that I laugh about when I point out to them but point out nonetheless because it’s a bit of a silly thing to say to a wheelchair user.
And then as I made my home I thought about the fact that it’s such a “wheelchair user” thing to say – to most people what she said would have been just one of those things but to me it was worthy of comment and kinda funny.
you know you’ve got CP when…